My Soulmate Died

My Soulmate Died

Some people wait what seems like forever to find their soulmate but what happens when they have a soulmate and the soulmate dies? People talk about how this affects them and how they have not ever been able to find someone else that makes them feel that good and they wonder how they can get on with their life without feeling like they are settling for something that they do not want.

Should a person that lost their soulmate find another relationship and settle with someone that they do not feel as close to as they did their soulmate?  Remember, losing someone that you love is a hard time and even knowing that this person is still with you in spirit does not make the longing go away. The memories and the everyday activities that you did together are still always going to be there.

Of course, when this happens, you have to begin to think about what your life is going to be in the future. You have to figure out what you want and learn that life is full of possibilities and experiences and they are all different than what you have done before.

The idea of the different possibilities that you have and how they are always changing can be a big thing in your life. Even though sometimes the possibilities make you wonder if you will ever be happy, even though they sound great. Each day in your life will be full of different decisions that you can make to change the course of your life and the moment that you will experience.

There are billions of people that live on the earth and no one is the same. No one is going to be exactly like your soulmate but that does not mean that you cannot find something or someone that makes you happy. Even thought it is almost impossible that you will ever find someone that is exactly like your soulmate, it doesn’t mean that you have to stay lonely and sad. It only means that the next relationship that you have will be different and will give you different clues and ideas into the future.

What caused you and your soulmate to be happy?  It was most likely the mutual love and support that you had for each other as you grew in the relationship. It is possible to meet someone that will give you love, and support and you have to learn to embrace the difference in the future relationship that you might have.

No one is going to be looking for someone that wants an exact replica of their soulmate and when you compare everything between that person and the new person you are talking to, it will cause you to miss out on something that could be good for you. Even though you want to remember your soulmate, when you raise them too high and put them in front of all of your relationships, it is doubtful that you will find a loving partner that will stay with you. Do not let yourself be stuck because of your ideas and your sadness.

You have to change how you think of things. Since you know you will not meet someone that is exactly like your soulmate, find new possibilities to look for. Meet people that have the same hobbies that you have and like the same things that you do. Look for people that are different and interesting.

Turn your mindset into something positive and say things like, “I know there are a lot of nice people out there that I can meet,” or “I know that there are happy relationships and none of them look the same,” and once you start saying these things to yourself, you will be okay with starting a new relationship and you can learn to create a new life with someone new.

It would be unfair of you if you wanted to meet someone but you were unwilling to see their differences and embrace them because you were stuck in your feelings with your soulmate that passed on. Each relationship is going to be different and if you want to be happy, you have to learn to appreciate the relationship for what it is and let love come to you.

You will never be able to replace your soulmate but you will be able to give yourself a new gift in life by meeting new people that will treat you good and will help you along your journey. You will probably never love anyone else like you loved your soulmate but learn to be happy and love them differently.  Learn to make something beautiful out of what you have.

Do don’t become an emotionally unavailable person because you are grieving over your lost soulmate. Learn to meet people that want to meet you and are interested in having fun. Use your judgement and find out when people are good and when they can do things to make you happy. Let new possibilities fill your life and remember that you are the one that has the power to choose to be happy again.

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