Things to Know to Understand Healing

Things to Know to Understand Healing

Healing may seem so simple but it can be complex for those attempting to dive into it as healers. Healing is a multi-level experience and the level you go to depends on your knowledge and experience.

Beginners tend to make a few mistakes in their first attempts at healing. First, they expect to feel something but may not feel the energy flow. Second, they may expect to see something supernatural when it may not occur. Healing doesn’t need a supernatural occurrence to work.

Where Does Healing Come From?

Those who are spiritualists classify healing as a sub-category of magic. There are several categories under the definition of magic including structural magic, spells, natural magic, black magic, and white magic. Healing falls under white magic as it is giving away energy where black magic is taking or blocking energy.

Religious people view healing differently since they believe all magic is from dark forces. They see healing as God using people to accomplish His will and perform miracles. Jesus was a healer and told His disciples they can do everything that He did while He was on earth. Likewise, people differ on where they believe healing energy comes from. Some believe it comes from the universe or God while others believe it comes from within yourself.

Healing Basics

The first rule, although rules are rather informal in healing, is that you must have the intention to heal someone. You must want to heal a person for it to work and offering positive energy, thoughts, and prayers gives energy to that person. Some studies back up this fact as people who are prayed for, even if they don’t know it, heal faster than others who are not.

The second rule, which is just as important, is that the person wants healing. You can’t give a gift to someone who doesn’t want it. They have to be in a spiritual or mental state to want to be healed. This is shown in the story of the woman reaching out to touch Jesus’ garment for healing. She reached out while Jesus was looking elsewhere. He knew she had been healed when he felt the energy flow out of him and questioned who touched him. In other words, her longing for healing worked even though Jesus did nothing but be there.

The third aspect of healing is that you need a connection to the person. It can be a physical connection with you there with them, a personal connection, a conversation, or an email. You can’t heal a stranger. There needs to be a form of a relationship for healing to work.

Does Remote Healing Work?

Remote healing does work as effectively as in-person healing as long as you have a personal connection with the person. In some ways, it’s better because you can allow energy to flow where it needs to go instead of trying to focus it in an area of your choice.

Another rule of healing is that it works because it comes from your personal experience. Your energy is unique to you. It’s like your immune system. Your immune system is created to withstand diseases you get. Likewise, healing energy knows what it can heal because it has done so for you.

With that in mind, you are subconsciously helping another person overcome a problem by using lessons contained in your energy. This is what helps them heal. It is kind of like giving them a blood transfusion that contains a lot of antibodies.

Rituals

Healing does require a ritual because it requires that you do something, to take action, to initiate it. The ritual doesn’t have to be complicated or of a particular faith. It is the action of implementing your intention that gets energy moving.

Generally, a longer, more involved ritual tends to work better but that is only because it amplifies and focuses on your intention.

Ground Yourself

An important aspect of healing is to make sure you are physically grounded when you are doing healing. That means your feet need to be on the ground. You need the earth’s energy to perform well.

Mixed Reactions

A healer faces different and mixed emotions from those around them. People are drawn to you because they sense you have healing energy they need. Yet, they don’t want to go through the pain of healing, so sometimes they say or do hateful things to you.

Healing can be painful, especially when you get to the root of the problem. For example, a broken arm hurts but setting it hurts more. A kidney stone hurts, but an operation hurts more.

What Is Given to You?

Healers don’t heal to get a reward, but energy has an ebb and flow. When you give your energy, you will receive energy back. Don’t block positive energy because you need to keep that energy river flowing. You can close off negative energy. However, being afraid of facing negative energy will draw it to you and block positive energy.

Other Things to Know

Some other elements are important to healing. One is not to strain to feel the energy flow. This should happen in a relaxed manner. It should be passive. Another element is to drum up feelings of love or other positive emotions. This tends to increase healing energy.

Likewise, visualizing things over them like a rainbow, sunlight or a bright cloud increases the effects of healing.

There are more levels to healing that this. Once you have practiced the art some, you can delve into the auras and the second level of auras to heal. That relies on understanding that emotions and beliefs are more than invisible forces. They are physical structures located on an aura’s higher level. Once you can see these levels, you can work on that level to heal.

Learning Advanced Techniques

Advanced healing techniques include removing parasites and spiritual things that block, bind, limit, and gag people. These spiritual things act as physical things like binds, gags, and implants. They are instilled by others for malice.

The secret to becoming a healer is to practice and develop your gift. It grows only with practice.

Soulmates: A Relationship Guide

Soulmates: A Relationship Guide

A soulmate is a person in life who you feel deeply connected to with a natural affinity, spirituality, and intimacy. This connection will be beyond words and explanation when compared to a typical relationship. This can be overwhelming when soulmates come together. This guide is meant to help you find your true life partner and maintain the relationship long term.

Signs It is a Soulmate

  • The timing perfect
  • You are willing to accept that person without a thought with an unspoken respect between you
  • If letting go occurs, it is done gracefully
  • Body chemistry is impressive and when this person touches you, it brings peace
  • There is no need to limit this person or try to control which leads to a judgement free relationship overall
  • You have chemistry when it comes to the mind and spirit
  • You will live and die for this person
  • You are inspired to improvement and you do the same for them
  • Conversation never gets old

An older relationship that felt like a soulmate may fail the above tests later on for two main reasons.

  • Modern culture forces the relationship into a stereotype rather than allowing for growth.
  • People can change and a life shift or trauma may fundamentally shift a person.

A person will be most likely to find a soulmate when strong and confident. Those who want a soulmate as a solution to life problems will not find a soulmate because their problems skew perception and search for the wrong qualities. This basically means that bad timing can prevent someone from finding their soulmate.

Life Partners

The highest ideal is a companion that embraces life with us in a harmonious, deep manner. This type of relationship is what we call a soulmate, but this can blind us to certain things that are needed for a true life partner. These include knowing what is really needed to balance a relationship and a potential need for a shift in the relationship that are held as ideals.

What Causes Souls to Break Apart?

At times, soulmates will break apart. There are a few reasons this may occur.

  • Trying Too Hard – Sometimes we just try to try too hard and mix the deep desire with cultural perceptions that anyone could be a soulmate. This can cause relationship hopping from one to the next.
  • No Such Thing as Perfection – Even the best of relationships will have some challenges. People mistakenly believe that soulmates will be complete smooth sailing, but this is not accurate. Everyone will face tough times.
  • Unbalance Chemistry – Chemistry is important with soulmates, but it is not always equally matched. One person may feel stronger about the other and if the feeling is not returned, your intensity can serve as a turnoff. Trust your senses and respond appropriately. Sometimes this is used to past trauma and personal development can level things out, but this takes time.
  • Not Only Physical – Physical chemistry should not be an area of concentration or at least not the only one. Physical chemistry can be powerful, so much so that it overwhelms. However, you should not avoid a focus on the mind and spiritual connections. Only physical chemistry will keep relationships together for a few years, but for longer term relationships, spiritual and mind chemistries must be in sync.

Soulmate

In western culture, a soulmate is not 100% defined. This means that your definition may be a bit different than that of your partner. If you hold differing ideals, it can create problems and stop a relationship from being long term. Some may not even believe in soulmates. So, we define soulmates as someone you can connect with without a word spoken that will help you grow even if it means losing you and that shares in kindness, judgment free.

Chemistry

Chemistry is a make it or break it aspect for soulmates. It requires physical, mental, and spiritual chemistry to really work for soulmates. While normal relationships can run on lower levels, but soulmates turn this up or the relationship will not last. This is why personal growth is important with soulmates. Issues can disrupt chemistry so continue with self-improvement to be in the right position to find a soulmate for the long term.

Sex

Soulmates have a deep and honest sexual connection as the mate aspect of soulmate. People often try to force someone into being a soulmate before knowing if a sexual connection is present, but it can fall apart if sex is not as connected as hoped. If this is the case, but other areas offer high connection, then you find yourself with a soul companion.

Soul Companion

A soul companion is much like a soulmate but there is no need or desire for sexual union. Sometimes people will marry soul companions and then discover they are not sexually compatible. This is actually quite common. Trying to force a soul companion to be a soulmate can be disastrous. It can work, but it will be dependent on numerous factors. A soul companion is spiritually close in a powerful place, but this does not mean you need to mate.

Many times, a same-sex soul companion gets confused and feels a deep connection with friends and maybe even a sexual edge. Understanding there is a deeper connection with some can improve these relationships. These are powerful connections, but can be confusing at the sexual level. Once the need to define a soul companion is removed than you are opened to many special relationships. You can have more than one soul companion, sometimes up to three though more is rare. However, we must be careful not to try to force a normal friendship into something further.

People also seek a twin flame as a strong soulmate. However, the karmic aspect of a twin flame often breaks people apart. The challenge that comes with a twin flame is to resolve karmic lessons and until this happens, relationships cannot become sustainable as life partners. The initial pull of twin flames can make people move too fast in a relationship, but without moderation and hard work, these relationships quickly burn out.

Finding a Life Partner

When searching for your life partner you must understand the nature of soulmates. Most people skip this step and force the wrong person into a mold.  You actually need to “know” not just wing it. Many feel they will simply feel their soulmate when they are near. This is not at all accurate. Biology can fool us into feeling someone is a soulmate with a focus on mating, but this is far from accurate as a soulmate.

A soulmate must include mind and spirit on top of the physical aspect. However, physical chemistry can be most powerful in the beginning. After all, it is a relationship and even the best have issues. A soulmate relationship may have fewer, but there will still be rough patches. Understanding how we perceive and match partners over time also effects how we find soulmates.

Finding Your Soulmate

  • True to Yourself – A life partner compliments you and your strengths as you do theirs. If weaknesses are your focus then a soulmate will not be found. We need to grow and can see a weakness and grow from it, but a focus on it is co-dependence. Find someone you are keeping that causes you to grow, not just for a relationship.
  • Do Not Force It – We believe we know what we nee and judge others as part of this, missing things that can ruin a relationship. Logic will not find a soulmate. This way of choosing is most obvious during the hardest times of life and soulmates will not be found during those times. Take time and wait for a true soulmate to come along.
  • Build Awareness – We must have awareness and be willing to explore different people to see how we react to others. Awareness lets us work to our essence and make connections. When we have a deep connection it is of mind, body, and soul. A person’s awareness for at least a year or two in a relationship is self-focused when in crisis. This is why a soulmate search should wait until a crisis passes.
  • Patience/Acceptance – When we are patient enough to accept ourselves as we are in life, relationships can improve in dramatic ways. This varies among people, but in a large community, people will come across a life partner about every three years until one is chosen. There is hope if we show patience.
  • Calibration – Relationship calibration is a unique teaching from Tao in which you are taught to understand your own essence and locate someone compatible.

Soul Companion Truth

Not every potential soul companion will become or stay a soul companion. It depends on conditions, timing, and many other factors. Take the time to be your own person, continually growing, to improve the chances of a soul companion taking notice. It will take both of you connecting to begin the process and you must be patient.

False Twin Flame Energy

False Twin Flame Energy

Do you feel that you have found your twin flame?  Is it possible though, that it isn’t your twin flame at all and it is an energy thief?  Here is a lit that will help you know if you have met your twin flame or if you have met someone that is a false twin flame.  A false twin flame is an energy thief and will cause you to become a victim in the relationship that I toxic.  This can cause you to lose your goals and to be destroyed.

Obsession

If you cannot think of anyone else but them, chances are they are a false twin flame.  A twin flame is meant to make you whole and so the thoughts should be more on yourself than them.

Overpowering

If this person wants you to have sex and you feel violated or used, there is a good chance this is a false twin flame.  You should not have any sex without being surrendered and having peace.  You should have a motivation in your life for healing if you are with your twin flame.

Worry

When you feel that you are worried about talking to this person, then they are a false twin flame.  Your real twin flame will leave you feeling comfortable and confident when you talk to them and you will not have fears.

Communication

Communicating in dreams will not be regarded as important and a false twin will only show up in a dream as a distress.  This means they will not communicate with you in the dream and will not bring you comfort.  They might confess something or make you feel negative.

Distance

A false twin will distance you emotionally and will not take accountability for their actions.  They might harm you or abandon you making you a victim.  This can be a psychopath and an energy stealer.

Control

A twin flame will never control or manipulate you.  If you see this behavior, then you are trusting a false twin flame and you will be used and mistreated and left feeling guilty all the time.

Vulnerable

A false twin flame will not open up to you or share their secrets or weaknesses.  They will want to control you and manipulate you and will use your weaknesses as a weapon against you.

Aggression

A real twin flame will never be aggressive with you and will not be disrespectful or try to violate or abuse you.  If this is happening, this is a false twin flame and will lead to more aggression against you.

Not Interested

If you find this person is not interested in the good things that happen in your life and only want things to happen that benefit them, chances are they are a false twin flame.  They will not even bring up your success and will only like it if it involves them.  They will have no concern for your goals or dreams and will not support you.

Jealousy

A real twin flame will know that you are the mirror of their soul and you are meant to be together.  They will not use your past against you or try to make you feel less then you should.  They will not be toxic and will make you feel secure and strong and not emotionally wounded.

Boundaries

When someone is not following your boundaries and is refusing to live by your rules, they are not your real twin flame.  Maybe they are always changing your plans or taking away your confidence.  Maybe they are not communicating with you and are taking away your energy.

Bad Luck

If you continuously have bad luck since you have been with this person, chances are they are affecting every part of your life in a negative way.  If you have a healthy relationship, you will find that they support you and will change their efforts to help you.

Flow

You might also see that you are not having good energy flow and that your relationship is toxic and sickly.  You might not have the talents that you need or you might not be having the energy that you are used to having.

Emotional Pain

If you have emotional pain and it is from the other person, chances are they are stealing your energy.  They will distance you and cause you to have thoughts of fear and worry.  They will make you not feel good and you will be vulnerable to them and to those around you.  Sometimes you will feel panicked and aggravated.

False Twins

A false twin will not want to cuddle or be around you physically.  They will stay far from you when you sleep and will always distance themselves from you.  They will not validate your relationship.

Eye Contact

A false twin flame will not be able to look you in the eye because they will not care about you.  They will keep their eye contact to themselves and will hide their motives.

Manipulation

A false twin flame will manipulate you and take your time and cancel plans or not even tell you plans are cancelled.  They will take your energy and will be the cause of your behaviors.

Blame

A false twin flame will always blame you when things go wrong.  They will never be accountable for their actions and they will not admit that they do things wrong.

They will blame you for past events and will always refute your efforts to make things better.  They will discredit you and make you look bad and will always have a motive that does not help you.

Kindness

A false twin flame will only be kind if it helps them.  They will act like they are a victim in the relationship and no matter what you do, you will not be able to please them.

Stalk

After you break up with a false twin flame, they will stalk you and promise to change even though they won’t.  They will follow you around and proclaim their love for you and if you let them back, they will start back within a day stealing your energy again.

Remember, when you are with a false twin flame, you are a piece of their property and not part of them.  You will not be treated like a human being.  They will not appreciate you and you will be in a bad situation that will make you lose yourself in them.

Meeting Your Twin Flame

Meeting Your Twin Flame

Many people think that the idea of a twin flame is fake and that it can never be real.  You meet many different people and just because you connect with one does not mean that they are your reincarnate or your other soul half.  This sounded like something that was made up, until they actually meet them.

Once they meet their twin flame, they will realize that they are connected to this person like no one has ever been.  They will see that their twin flame will come and be more than any soulmate ever was and whatever was holding you back, will no longer be there anymore.

You will see that when you meet your soulmate that you will want to change, and you will want to grow.  You will be able to handle your issues better and face things head on.

A soulmate connection will help you to want to work out your karmic situations and will want you to be closer to people in your life.  If you have a romantic relationship with your twin flame, you will no longer have barriers and you will be okay with that.

The twin flame that you meet is the other part of your soul.  They are like a mirror to you and if you are tired or energetic, they will know this, even right when they meet you.  If you are with someone that you are connected with, you will be close to each other, when you are not in the same area.

A twin flame is someone that you are connected to on all levels, not just physically.  You will have an emotional, mental and spiritual connection and it will go deep into your soul.  This will take away all of your emotions of fear and pain and anger and you will find peace and happiness.

If you want to know if you met your twin flame, here are some ways you can find out:

Bonding

You will meet this person for the first time, and you will want to be around them forever.  You will feel like you have known them forever and even just being around them gives you the sense of belonging.

Telepathy

Your twin flame will always know what you are thinking and vice versa.  You can even call on them when you are miles away from each other.  All you have to do is to tune into your twin flame and they will hear from you.

Eyes

Nothing about your twin flame will be shameful and you will always be able to look each other in the eyes and not look away.  You will feel comfortable around them and you will always feel that they are reflecting back what you are feeling.

Being Yourself

When you are with your twin flame, you get to be you.  They will not expect you to change or even want you to.  You will not be ashamed of who you are, and fear being rejected by them, because they don’t judge you or want a change.  They will encourage you in your journey and in your growth and want you to always be real with them.

Unconditional Love

The purpose of a twin flame relationship is to help you to understand and know unconditional love.  You will not have to earn this love; it will just come from the universe.  Nothing will get between you.

Purpose

You will find that you and your twin flame have the same purpose.  Your relationship will be easy because you will have the same goals and ideas on it.  Things will be easy because you will always be in unison with each other.

Strong Emotions

Everything that happens will be a strong emotion.  If you are happy, you will be very happy and if you are upset, it will be overwhelming.  With your twin flame, they will help you through all of the things that are hard for you to work through.

Separate Ways

There will be a time where your twin flame will likely distance themselves form you.  This will be because you are not both ready for the relationship and one of you will need some time to work through it.  You will have stuff and want to run from it, or your twin flame will.  This will last a while and then you will have a reunion with them.

Vibrational Frequency

You and your twin flame will have the same vibrational frequency, and this is actually how you find each other.  You will feel the energy field when you are around them and you will be able to exchange this.  This will cause you to be tingly and to feel that you are happy and warm.  This is an intense connection.

Patterns and Numbers

You might find that you always see repeating patterns or numbers, and this can be a sign that your twin flame is near you.  The repeating numbers and patterns can be a sign form the universe.

Knowing Your Togetherness

You will know without a doubt that you are meant to be together.  You will know that your soul is connected, and you will no longer feel empty.  You will be strong in your relationship and all of your insecurities will go away.

A twin flame connection is the biggest romantic relationship that can happen to you.  When you meet yours, you will see that no other relationship can compare to this.  A twin flame relationship is the best type of relationship that you will have in your lifetime.  Embrace it.

Twin Flame Telepathy

Seven Fun Facts about Twin Flame Telepathy

Twin flame telepathy occurs when partners’ energies connect with each other and with source, allowing for a metaphysical exchange. For many, this occurs through profound emotional interactions both in waking or dreams. It can even occur in intense sexual encounters.

When you connect this way, your connections with your twin flame and any potential psychic capabilities are stimulated and activated, even if you haven’t displayed metaphysical abilities in the past.

Here are seven fascinating facts about twin flame telepathy:

  1. Twin flame telepathy develops rapidly.

Telepathic communication between twin flames can manifest quickly, seemingly overnight, when you interact energetically with your twin flame partner and your souls connect to each other’s higher consciousness.

Twin flame telepathy allows partners to converse mentally and even read each other’s thoughts. In addition to communicating with words, twin flames may also sense their partner’s moods and feelings, including suddenly gaining knowledge they never had before. This energetic transferring of knowledge is called claircognizance. It’s almost like downloading computer files—the knowledge transfers from your twin into you, and you immediately know what they know.

  1. Twin flame telepathy works across distances.

Telepathy between twin flames is an amazingly effective way for them to remain in communication no matter the amount of physical distance between them. If you want to send your twin flame a message or make them feel happy, start with basic sentiments like “I forgive you” or “I miss you.” Such statements are very powerful since these are elemental concepts that transmit easily and clearly through energetic channels and realms.

Expressing love is another simple and amazing communication you can send telepathically. Focus on the area of your heart and on the love you feel toward your twin flame, then visualize that you’re directing it to them. They will perceive it, even if you haven’t previously spoken of it in this incarnation, or you’ve been separated for years.

  1. Twin flames can even touch across distances.

Remote touch is another phenomenon that can occur telepathically between twin flame partners. Remote touch and telepathy are especially active and noticeable when partners’ brains are in their alpha or theta mode, meditative states in which communication is open and our ego and defense mechanisms are relaxed, such as when we’re deep in thought or just before we fall asleep.

Many twin flames can sense their partner kissing them or holding their hand. Some are lucky enough to experience remote-touch sexual encounters via telepathy.

  1. You’re permanently “tuned in” to each other’s energy.

Because twin flame partners share a unique energy frequency different from anyone else’s relationship, your spirits are already tuned in” to the other’s channels, like a radio or television station’s signal. This unique frequency means that you are constantly in communication with each other in the energetic realm.

This is the same reason why so many biological twins can sense, hear, and feel each other’s moods, thoughts, and feelings. Twin flame telepathy becomes easier and stronger the clearer our energy channel is to align with this shared base frequency.

  1. Communication will not be exclusively literal.

Be aware of impressions and messages you receive in the form of sounds, images, dreams, and sensory concepts such as arousal, warmth, cold, emotions, touch, and heart palpitations. Emotions and energy and can be expressed in many different ways.

Don’t be surprised if you recall incidents from your twin flame partner’s background, or experience déjà vu when you begin the union process. This is because your energies are consolidating. One component of this consolidation process is that you will absorb some of their essential being, as they will with yours.

When a thought about your twin flame partner suddenly pops into your head, it’s because they’re thinking of you. And when you sense the love between you even when you weren’t thinking about it, it’s because they’re sending it to you.

Sometimes this happens on the spiritual level, where there’s always love connecting twin flame partners. And the more you consciously focus on twin flame telepathy, the more easily you will be in touch in this way.

Twin flame telepathy really boosts the feelings of fun, intimacy, and togetherness because twin flame connections don’t rely on verbal communication. This also reduces the chance of conflict and misunderstandings. In other words, love’s energy is unmistakable.

  1. You will get stronger with practice.

Telepathy between twin flame partners occurs in the energetic realm. So, to develop this ability, you must work to keep your energy meridians and channels open, healthy, and clear.

Managing your energy will allow you to develop twin flame telepathy more quickly than anything else could. By using energy tools, you can quickly progress from picking up random words to having complete conversations. This is true even if you’ve never had supernatural abilities before.

As with many other skills, the more practice you get, the easier and more effective it will become. You and your twin will develop unique methods and tools on your journey, and experimenting will be an exciting experience that draws you closer and closer together.

  1. Twin flame telepathy opens other communications.

Developing twin flame telepathy can become a gateway for communicating with all of your spiritual guides. Once you open and strengthen your telepathic communication with your twin, you will also be able to communicate with your angels and spirit guides.

This is immensely helpful in your life’s journey, as these spiritual entities are full of insight, love, and wisdom for us here in the physical realm. One word of caution: anyone in communication with spirits must be certain that they’re indeed communicating with their true guides, and that the information they’re receiving is to their highest good.

Energy has no language. So, communication has no barriers. Telepathy and other energy-based communications allow you to communicate with anybody across any language.

When Your Energy is Closed Off

When Your Energy is Closed Off

Finding love is more than just going on dates and having a dating app.  You also have to open up your mind, body and soul to the energies of love. You might not even realize it, but some people block out the energies of love and cause themselves to miss out on potential partners.

There are three different areas in your life that you need to review to see if you are blocking out your love energies.  The first is body language, personality and how you look.  When you are blocking these things, you are not really ready for a relationship and you need to work on you.

If you have fear and insecurity, that is normal.  You have to work through these things before you can have a healthy relationship.  If you aren’t ready to work through them, maybe you aren’t ready for a relationship.

Body Language

When you want to know if someone likes you, you look at their body language.  If they cross their arms or if they are standoff-ish, this is a sign that you are not interested in getting to know someone.

Frowning

If you are always frowning at people, chances are you are giving a message for them to go away.  People will not want to approach you.

Dark Colors

Wearing dark colors can cause people to stay away from you.  Dark colors can be interpreted as sadness, depression and defiance.  Wearing these colors might make people stay away from you.

Waiting

Starting conversations with people means that you are open to love.  Even if you aren’t looking for romance at the time, you can still bring people into your life by doing things like paying for someone’s coffee or reaching out to someone.  This can send a message that you are open to connect with people.

Leaving Early

When someone does something bad, you might want to leave the date before it ends, but if you find that you are doing this, you will not be able to gain much from that connection.

Dating the Wrong Ones

When you date people that you cannot see yourself with for long-term, you are closing yourself off to a future of love.  This might be because you aren’t ready to settle down or you are hesitant.

Ex

If you meet people and they all remind you of what your ex did wrong, chances are you aren’t over them.  If you are always thinking about them, you might still have a certain energy with them that isn’t allowing you to connect with others.

Conclusion

If you want to be open to love, you have to open up your love energies.  Try to make eye contact with people, talk more, and imagine yourself on the perfect date and finding the perfect love.  All of these things can manifest you a love interest in your life.

What to Remember When Breaking Up with a Soulmate

What to Remember When Breaking Up with a Soulmate

When you have a soulmate, the relationship can be hard.  Just because they are your soulmate doesn’t mean that your relationship won’t be full of strong emotions of love, obsession, passion, jealousy and other strong emotions.

When your soulmate comes into your life, you expect that things will be good and when the relationship ends, it will be hard to handle because a soulmate is someone that you share your whole life with.  It will feel that your life won’t have struggles but then when you do, it will be magnified.

The love of your life is who you choose to love and meeting your soulmate is not someone you can choose to be with.

Catering

You don’t have to cater to your soulmate every second of their life.  You don’t have to always entertain them and do whatever they want.  You might get mad and angry when you are always trying to do this.  You need to take care of yourself and you cannot be there to make them feel better.  If you feel like the relationship is not healthy, don’t stay with them just because, move on so you can be happy.

Staying in Your Life

You get to a point where you have to end the relationship with your soulmate, and it is not a time to worry about rather they will stay in your life or not.  Your connection was made for a purpose and to teach you a lesson.  Many people do not understand that soulmate relationships can be toxic and therefore they worry that they will lose the person that is their soulmate forever if they move on.  A soulmate connection is something that teaches you and you cannot worry about it being a loss.  Relationships with your soulmate will be harder when breakup happens but you have to cut the strings sometimes.

Possession

You do not own your soulmate and they are not your possession.  These relationships can be abusive, and you have to learn to move on.  If you always feel like life is pulling you and your relationship is not what you expect it to be, then you might need to move on.  There are soulmate relationships that are sometimes built around each individual and you have to learn to be an individual.

Right Time Connection

Sometimes when you meet your soulmate, it can be the wrong time.  Your partner might just be leaving a marriage or another relationship.  When you connect with a soulmate and then feel like you have made the wrong decision then it means that your soulmate won’t be forever.

You might have your soulmate for a small amount of time and you will not know what you are missing unless you give the relationship a chance.

Too Much

When you are in a soulmate relationship, it can be a lot of energy.  This energy can be too much for some people to handle because the vibrational frequency is so strong.  The love affairs can make people feel that they are going crazy and can make them feel that their feelings are controlling their life.  Leaving this relationship can be hard but it is part of life.

Dark Pieces of You

Having a soulmate connection can mean that you magnify your emotions.  This can cause you to be angry and to be upset.  When people are passionate and have met each other, it can be hard to control these feelings.  These types of relationships are known to be anxiety and fear.  You can’t imagine not being with this person but at the same time, it isn’t always healthy.

Spiritual Growth

A soulmate relationship can be a strong bond and can help you to move past certain karmic contracts that had to happen in order to let you grow.  When these people come into your life, allow the universe to shift.  These people exist so you can learn to love and learn lessons.

Conclusion

When you break up with your soulmate, you can see that you will never be the same.  You will have other relationships that will come in your life, but none will be as strong as a soulmate relationship.  These relationships can bring chaos and passion that you cannot explain.

Is the Universe Trying to Set You Up with the One?

Is the Universe Trying to Set You Up with the One?

If you keep making the wrong choices when it comes to dating, it can feel like the universe is conspiring against you. However, it could be the universe is pushing you toward someone but you keep getting sidetracked with what you do not want. You may just not realize this is what is happening.

We co-write our own stories in life and we must dance between what our ego tells us we want and what we are meant to have and learn. When we put an intention of love out into the universe, it is usually answered. The universe will offer nudges, but we tend to ignore them. You may not see fireworks when you meet the one, but you will know. We just have to be ready to pay attention. Below are some indicators that the universe is pushing you toward your soulmate

Done with the Wrong Ones

The universe is always generous, providing for what you want or need. When you are ready for the one, something within you will shift and those red flags you ignored in previous relationships will no longer be tolerated. You will finally be able to be honest about what you want and even what you do not. When this finally happens, it will be easier to open up to those you may have previously rejected. This does not mean chemistry will be instantaneous, but a subtle energy will be felt when the one is in your presence.

Peace

When the universe is trying to show you the one, you will have peace with yourself. Others may even comment on positive changes that are noticeable in your attitude and actions.

Exes Were not the One

Failed relationships are the universe’s way of helping. If you have had a relationship end, it is a sign that you were headed in the wrong direction. Consider exes as learning experiences and stones leading you to the one.

Running Into the Same Person

Life may just be pushing you toward someone specific if you keep hearing their name mentioned or randomly running into them. Pay attention.

Dreams

Dreams may or may not mean anything to you, but if you repeatedly dream about the same person then it could be important. Pay attention to the people in your dreams whether they are known or strangers.

Random Repetition

Coincidence does not exist, so we must consider things like this a sign. Signs tend to be repetitive and from various, often random sources. You may hear the same love song in different places all in the same day or hear the same or similar stories repeatedly. Take notice, the universe is trying to get your attention. These may take place over a day or even a week, but you need to pay attention.

You Will Know

Sometimes you just know that you know when you have met the one. Sometimes we have a hard time recognizing it, but if something inside of you seems to say this is the one, then listen. The feeling will be mutual for your one, even if they do not at first realize it. Listen to those feelings and you will both reach the same conclusion.

It can be very difficult to recognize signs from the universe because many of them are personal shifts. Just remember the universe is on your side and with time, patience, and some self-work the one will be found. Things will fall into place.

Signs You Met Someone from the Past

Signs You Met Someone from the Past

Have you ever felt that you knew someone that you have never seen before?  This could be part of your past journey life.  You might think right away that you have seen them or met them even if you haven’t and this can be because at some point in your life you have met them or crossed paths with them.  This experience could be from your past life and reincarnation.

When you meet someone from your past, it can be exciting, and it could bring back feelings of your past relationship together.  Remember how you feel and see if there is unfinished business that you didn’t get finished in your past life.

Feeling at Home

If you meet someone that understands you, someone that doesn’t judge you or make you feel bad then chances are you have met them in your past life.

You might feel like you are coming home when you meet them and be able to talk to them for hours.  You might also feel awkward or empty and this can mean that you need to figure out what is going on in the relationship without forcing anything.

Emotions

When you see someone, you might have all kinds of emotions that go up inside of you.  You might feel that you haven’t seen them in a long time, and you might feel that crossing paths with them has been life changing, right away.

However, you meet them, you know that it is more than just chance and it might make you cry or laugh or feel excited.

Memories

If you don’t know why or how but you have memories of the past with someone, you might be meeting someone from your past life.  If you remember living in the same place or just know that you have shared a life with them, this is a big sign.

Read Them

If you can understand and know what someone is thinking and have just met them, then this person has experienced some type of past with you.  If nothing feels hard or strained, chances are you have telepathic connections and you need to embrace this.

Time

When you are with this person and it seems like time flies by because you are with them, this means you need to engage with them and know them more.  They could have information about your past life.

Connection

Even if you haven’t, you might feel that you have talked to this person before.  You could be connected telepathically, and the universe could be delivering messages to you.  You might be connecting with someone special from your past life.

Click

If you click with someone instantly even if you have always felt misunderstood, this means you could be meeting someone from the past.  You might feel an immediate bond with them, and you can talk to them for hours without there being any stress.

Conclusion

Some psychics believe that you will have past life connections and that you need to understand that they will be deep and immediate.  This can be a feeling and has often been a spiritual connection.  When you already feel that you know someone, embrace that and figure out what role they have played in your life.

Unlocking Your Psychic Powers

Unlocking Your Psychic Powers

Everyone has some type of psychic power and it depends on what you will do with it if you will increase your spiritual skills or not.  You might need to be trained to really use your skills to the max and there are certain things you can do to practice increasing your intuition skills and to get a stronger spiritual connection.

These of course, are just suggestions and there are different methods and psychics that can give ideas on how to increase these powers.

Believe in Yourself

If you want to increase your powers, you have to believe in yourself and accept that you have these powers.  If you ask a psychic about their gifts, they will tell you that they have practiced and learned from others to develop their gifts.

Meditation

Meditation is a great way to focus in on your skills.  Do this at least once a day and try to do it for at least 15 minutes.  Connect with yourself and the energies around you.  If you do not know how to meditate, just relax by finding an environment that is quiet and calm.  Play soft music and make sure you have something on that is comfortable.  You never want to feel restricted.  Relax and get rid of any stress.  Breathe deeply.

Energies

Touch different objects to try to read the energy of them.  This is called psychometry.  This can help you to fix on your intuition ability.  Use different stones and crystals that have strong energies.

Find objects that will fit in your hand like jewelry and hold on to it.  Take deep breaths and let the energy from the object flow through you.  This might make you feel a tingling sensation.  Close your eyes and listen to what your intuition is telling you about the object.

Forgive

You have to have inner peace and you have to do this in order to find your powers and increase them.  If you have a conflict with someone, you have to resolve it.  Do not avoid it.  Doing this can release negative energies and help you meditate better.

Mindfulness

Meditation doesn’t mean you just sit, you also can walk around and absorb the energies around you.  Concentrate on all things that you do and take slow steps.  Focus on what your body is feeling and what you are doing.

Fears

Using your psychic abilities is not good or bad but you can find the energy of these things hard.  You might be afraid of facing negative things, but you can unlock more abilities if you will face these.  Accept all the outcomes and develop your skills and then you will see things that might even shock you.  You have to learn to accept any of your gifts and not be afraid of them even if they are hard.

Spirit Guide

Your spirit guide has picked you and the two of you are connected.  It is their job to guide you and help you to grow.  You might even have more than one spirit guide, and this is okay.

Your spirit guide will be ready to connect to you when you meditate and when you lose negative energies.  Connecting with them might seem hard at first but it will get easier.

Ask yourself questions such as “what does my spirit guide look like and what is its name?  What is its personality like?”

Ask Questions

You have a spirit guide to guide you so ask questions.  Turn to them for guidance.  Let them help heal you of emotional scars.  Ask clear questions and don’t attach an outcome.

Ask your spirit guide for signs and choose objects to connect with so you can connect between the object and your spirit guide.

Auras

When you are around a person, you can feel their energies, and these are auras.  These are their vibrations and you can develop these over times.

Start by sitting in front of a wall while being relaxed.  Put your palms toward the wall and relax and stare at your hands.

Keep that gaze for 30 seconds and feel the energies around you.  You might see the outline of your aura.  Keep practicing and remember what you see.

Be patient and observe what you are doing until you master this skill.

Dream Journal

Always keep a dream journal to watch your journey.  Let your dreams reveal things to you and write it down after you wake up so you don’t forget.  Dreams can tell you a lot of things and your spirit guide is never sleeping.

Spiritual Class

Take a spiritual class and use this to tap into your gifts.  This is not necessary, but it can make you a space where you feel safe and are around like minded people.  Soak in these positive energies and tune in with your intuition.