When people say the word soulmate, it is a word that some misuses thinking that it means someone that you are meant to marry or someone that you are in love with.
The truth is, having a soulmate is a totally different experience than just being in love. When you meet your soulmate, you have fallen in love, but you also have an emotional, spiritual and intellectual connection with them. These feelings are hard to describe but your soulmate has you heart and soul and this can be an intense relationship. This person is your other half and the only person that seems to get you and understand you. You can’t imagine that your life would be manageable if you didn’t have them and it would be the saddest part of your life. But what if you and your soulmate aren’t meant to be together? At least not in this life. Maybe in the next life you will be meant to be together but in this life your relationship can just be wrong and toxic.
If you have to say goodbye to your soulmate, it is like a horrible break up and can hurt you emotionally and can feel like part of you dies with the end of the relationship.
This is how life can continue if you and your soulmate are not able to be together.
You will find someone to love again and you might get married and have a great life, but even then, you will always feel like something is missing. You can’t explain it and you will feel that part of you is out of reach but as time passes, the feelings will lessen but never go away. Love will never feel the same as it did with your soulmate.
No matter how long life goes on, you will always have memories, and these will play through your mind for many years to come. Some of it will be when your mind wanders back to the past and when you get flashbacks of where your life was at some point. Even if the memories are good or pad, you will always carry them with you.
You Become A Different Person
Part of you will die with your soulmate breakup and you will never feel the same. You will feel that a lot about you has changed and your heart will have a hard time handling thing like dating and love. It is like the whole inside of your heart has changed from what you once knew.
A good example of this is that you will act like a completely different person and it will just be part of your past that is living with you. You will begin to live a life that is completely different, and people will think this is a better you even if you have gone through a lot of pain. You might even see some of your old self coming out or miss it a little.
Questioning the Bad
If you are not with your soulmate, you might find that life has become unhealthy and that being with your soulmate brought a lot of fights and hurt but you miss this. As time passes, you will see the bad things in a different light, and you will realize that you handled it better than you thought you could. You might ask how bad things really were or if you just overreacted.
It could be years later, and you still might dream about your soulmate and wonder how they are doing. It is like it is taking your heart a lot longer to heal than the rest of you. You might question walking along through life without them and think that the pain is still there even years later.
Your Soulmate will Always Be a Part of You
You will find that you can move on, but you will not ever forget your memories. They will be with you in some way and even if you are happy, you will always have that in your heart, and you will always miss them a little bit. In the next life, when you and your soulmate meet back up, you will feel like life is magical.