Signs You’re in a Dark Night Relationship

Dark Night Relationship

There are so many hard stages that people go through in their spiritual awakening but one of the hardest stages is the Twin Flame Dark Night of the Soul stage. This is part of your twin flame journey, and it is a time that you will be impacted.

The Twin Flame Dark Night of the Soul is when your twin flame and yourself are connected and you are seeing a spiritual change in front of you. This stage can happen when you meet your twin flames and sometimes it happens after the Dark Night of the Soul.

People often wonder why they are going through this situation and even if they are twin flames and they have to deal with hard things, this experience can happen simultaneously.

What is the Dark Night of the Soul?

The Dark Night of the Soul is a time of growth and a time of change. It happens and then you have to heal, and you become a better person. Once you meet your twin flames, you will see that there are things in your life that need to be changed and healed.

Depending on how the twin flame union goes, you will become a better person during the whole thing, but the Dark Night of the Soul is a time that the universe makes you face things such as your insecurities and fears you may have. This is also a time that you might have to pay back karmic debt.

During this journey, you will see that you will learn different lessons and some you might have failed in the past. You will see that the repeated mistakes are gone in this stage and the experiences are there to help you heal.

This stage is hard to go through and can be painful and some people feel helpless and hopeless during this stage.

Signs You Are Going Through the Dark Night of the Soul

Here are some signs that you are going through the Dark Night of the Soul:


You start having main symptoms of the Dark Night of the soul including:

• Losses.
• Illnesses.
• Somatic Symptoms without medical causes.
• Disorientation.
• Feeling lost.
• Feeling hopeless.
• Feeling helpless.
• Depression.
• Mental illness.

The purpose of this stage is so that you can figure out who you are and what you want in your life. The karmic debt that you made in your past life will come to you and it will help you to become a better you.

Meeting the Twin Flame

You might go through this at the same time that you meet your twin flame. You will be dealing with hard things at the beginning of this journey, and this is connected with the Dark Night of the Soul.

Some people will not have met their twin flames yet and it doesn’t mean you aren’t going through this stage.

Feeling Stuck

This stage can make you feel stuck, and it can be repetitive patterns and situations. You will meet the same kind of people and you will start making better choices which will free you of karmic debt.

Feeling Lost

Many people at this stage will know where to go but many will not. You might feel lost no matter which direction you go.

This stage can make you feel like you have lost your direction and it can make you feel doubtful and odd. It can also make you feel that you have no meaning and feelings of being confused like never before.

When you feel empty and desperate, this might be the stage that you are in. You have to accept this stage and work through it.


People that go through this stage are often separated from their twin flames at this time. This can be a painful part of your journey. This will cause you to have deep feelings and to need healing and it can trigger the Dark Night of the Soul.

If you are in this stage, then it can mean that you see karma come to you fast. It can mean that you get this without having to wait for lifetimes. Do the right actions so that you can move forward in this stage.

Facing Fears

During the Dark Night of the Soul is a time that you will have to face your deepest fears. You will learn that you can overcome anything even when you are tired and overwhelmed. You will see that you can build confidence in yourself, and you can reach your higher self.

Emotional Triggers

Here are some of the emotional triggers that you might experience with the Dark Night of the Soul:

  • Not knowing what will happen.
  • Hating people that lie.
  • Hating cheaters.
  • Not able to love yourself or others.
  • Feeling afraid of not getting married.

When you go through this, chances are that your twin flame is going through the same thing. Since they are mirror to your soul, they will experience the same types of things.

Changing Your View

As things are hard during this stage, you will change how you see things. There will be pain, but you will have more compassion for others. You will be thankful for the things you have, and you will be more understanding.

This stage is painful but as you go through it, you will understand yourself more and what you are going through. This will be a time to rediscover who you are and what you want in your life.

Life Purpose

You will find your life purpose during this time. You will see that it can last for a few days to even years. As it goes on though, you will have an idea of what your purpose is. You will see that you have a divine purpose and that you have to let go of the darkness to better who you are.

Even if this doesn’t make sense to you, you have to allow the confusion to work through you so that you can learn and move forward. Allow your empathy to increase and your gratefulness.

Moving Through the Dark Night of the Soul

This will be hard, but you can make it through it. Here are some things you can do to make it through this stage of your life:

  • Find some support: Find people that will support you and help you through the hard times. Find someone you can talk to and share all of your secrets with. If you are separate from your twin flame, then you will need someone. You can even do Reiki to help you and find a therapist.
  • Accept your lessons: You will learn many lessons during this time, and you need to accept them and move forward. No matter how hard they are, learn from them and don’t be mad about it. Let yourself grow.
  • Let go of things that you aren’t in control of and just release it. Don’t try to make things happen the way that you want them to but allow the relationship to find its peace and acceptance along the way.
  • Increase your spiritual self: You can do this while you are forgiving yourself and others. You can accept who you are and discover new things about yourself. Change your view of who you see yourself as and allow yourself to be wiser. Look at this as an opportunity and not a punishment.

Final Thoughts

It can be hard to deal with the Twin Flame Dark Night of the Soul and even though it could last for just a few days, for some, it lasts for years.

As you go through this stage, you will have to allow things to be let go and allow yourself to grow. If you are going through this right now, seek guidance from someone you can trust and live your best life. Keep pushing and you will make it through.